You’ve refrained from sex, ended a godless relationship, refrained from entering other godless relationships, bought a few books about single living, attended a few singles’ conferences, gotten on a few prayer lines, bought some oil to anoint yourself with, and you’ve even mentored a few women about waiting

You’ve been waiting. and waiting. and waiting some more . You remember the works you’ve done. —————————–Wrong.You keep telling yourself that it’s just not your season yet, but in the meantime, you will surround yourself with other single women so that you can feel better about your wait. After all, you’ve been waiting five years (more or less), so you have something to offer them too; right? You see a few women who’s been waiting a year, and their conversation reveals that they expect their GOD-appointed husbands to find them any day now. How dare they? You’ve been waiting five years (more or less), so you feel like they are trying to get ahead of you in the invisible line you’re standing in. You open your mouth to share what you think is wisdom, but instead, what comes out is the foolishness that’s been keeping you from being found. You’re bitter. You’re still tied up to some man in your past, and you don’t even recognize that you’re in a soul tie. You feel entitled. You’ve somehow convinced yourself that your works have justified you, and because you think this way, you’ve allowed yourself to become upset with GOD. Sure, you may not say it out loud, but your frustration with the LORD is very much so present. You’re mad because you’ve been waiting for a long time, and you’re watching other women get married after having waited a few months or a few years.